One Way to Spice Up Your Love Relationship

Want to spice up your love life and simply have more fun doing it?

Try acting on some of the fantasies that the two of you might have. Now, not all fantasies have to be acted on. It might be just as much fun to talk about your fantasies but sometimes you might want to experiment with acting them out—if you both agree to it.

One woman told us that she and her partner like to play the game, “Photographer and the Stripper.” Her husband plays the photographer and she plays the stripper. She dresses up in sexy outfits, red lipstick, and hoop earrings. Her husband either pretends to take photos of her or actually does take them of her as she strips and teases him.

This woman also says that every now and then, she puts on the persona of a different aspect of the feminine, names herself and asks her husband this question in a teasing, tantalizing way—“What do you want today?”

They have great fun with this and her husband gets to make love with different women while staying completely faithful to her.

Another woman combines role play and fantasy to keep her relationship hot. She likes to wear different colored wigs when they are intimate—red, black, blonde—because she likes to play differe

How to Be the women men adore

Some women seem to cast spells over men. Men just seem captivated by them. It’s not magic. What do they know that you don’t? Here’s a hint. It’s not that they are more attractive or more intelligent than you.

My name is Bob Grant. I've been a Licensed Professional Counselor, therapist, and relationship advice coach for 17 years. The majority of my clients are women . I’ve found that women have a greater intent and ability to influence men than vice- versa. You simply need to understand how he thinks and what he wants. Once you know that, it’s easy to get what you want.

The methods I’m about to share with you are based on real-life feedback from those who have tried my relationship advice and found that it produced a dramatic difference in their relationships with men.

How to read the signs of a lying partner

Knowing whether you are being lied to or not, does not require mind reading or psychic power. Understanding the difference between the truth and a lie can all be determined by a person�s behavior, and if you pay attention to these behaviors, you will be able to have a better idea of whether you are being lied to or not. The most important thing you should always remember to do however is to trust your instincts. If you feel you are not getting the entire truth from your partner for some reason, then listen to your instincts. Most people are in good touch with their instincts, but rather not listen to that inner voice because they refuse to believe that their partner would deceive them in any way. Staying in touch with your instincts will help guide you in the right direction.

Though instincts are a great help, they can be tricky. Majority of the times, your instincts will not lie to you, but there are times when your instincts can be influenced by your fears and insecurities. For example, you may already have fears of being cheated on, therefore you may feel that your partner is lying to you and cheating on you, when in fact he or she may be telling you the truth and completely faithful to you. This is why it is essential to understand the behavior of a liar, so that you can define the difference between really catching on to a liar, or just being paranoid that your partner is lying to.

Watch the Body Language

One important thing to remember is that the body never lies. If there are changes in the way your partner moves (or does not movie) his/her arms, hands, head and the way his/her eyes shift, then you are most likely being lied to. The reason the body language changes when a person is lying is because the person now has to think of a way to seem convincing that he/she is telling the truth. Since he/she knows that whatever they are telling you is a lie, the behavior automatically changes because they are now trying to act truthful, instead of actually being truthful. One big sign to look out for is in the eyes. If your partner avoids eye contact with you, then he/she is lying to you. There is a fear that you will see through him or her if there is eye contact, so eye contact will be avoided. Whether you realize it or not, your body also communicates when you talk. When you are enthusiastic about telling your partner something and are telling the truth, you will move your hands around and will look into his/her eyes to make a connection. If your partner is lying however, he or she will tense up, will most likely tone down on the hand movement and eye connection and will seem different than other times. If your partner is the type to still move his/her hands around even when he/she is lying, then pay attention to the timing of the movements. Timing is everything and can define the difference between the truth and a lie. When a person is telling the truth for example, his/her hands (and whatever body movement he/she does) will move at the same time when telling you something. When he/she is lying however, the body language will be off and will usually come shortly after he/she has told you the lie. This is because they have to think about acting natural, and this thinking causes them to be off key.

Make Your Romantic Getaway More Passionate

Just ask any couple. A romantic getaway can be a wonderful renewal of love, passion and connection. It can also be far less than what the couple intended.

Almost everyone has memories of fun, frolic and togetherness from their favorite trip for two. And almost everyone also has not so fond memories of getaways with a love that just didn't turn out as planned.

You can enhance intimacy, connection and passion as you and your partner getaway from your normal lives. All it takes is a willingness to be open, clear and present.

Joanie thought she had it all figured out. She surprised her husband Paul with a week-long getaway for two at a scenic mountain cabin.

In her planning Joanie included outings for hiking, kayaking, and plenty of “free” time at the cabin for passion. Unfortunately, when they arrived at the rustic cabin, Paul was disappointed to find no television and grumbled that he'd miss his favorite team in the playoff games that only happen once a year.

The romantic getaway continued to go downhill from there as Joanie realized that Paul just doesn't love spending endless hours in the great outdoors as she does. Though he thanked her for the surprise and certainly enjoyed the intimate times they spent together in the cabin, the countless bug bites, sprained ankle and sunburn that Paul endured did not make for an overly positive experience.

Think through your surprise getaways with care.

As Joanie found out, surprising your mate with a getaway may not be as perfect for him or her as it is for you. No matter how well you know your love, it could be that he or she just isn't in the mood for what you've planned.

And nothing is worse than spending time and money on a trip meant for you two to connect when only you are enjoying yourself-- and even you may not be having fun.

Try to step back from your first inclination when planning and ask yourself if your mate would truly like what you have in mind.

Additionally, some people really don't like surprises. There is a dimension of decisions being out of your control with a surprise like a getaway which can feel uncomfortable to some.

For others, it is a treat to be surprised and to only be required to show and up and have relax. Be clear about your partner's comfort level with surprises before proceeding in this way.

Listen with openness and a sense of adventure.

If Joanie had decided to share with Paul the getaway she had in mind during the planning phase, he may have said absolutely not or he may have been open to the rustic mountain cabin trip-- but perhaps with some alterations.

For example, they may have scheduled the trip so that the timing would better suit both of them. Even if there had been a television in the cabin, Paul wouldn't have wanted to feel torn between watching the playoff games and spending time with Joanie so a different week could have made a difference.

They may also have varied their activities on this getaway to allow both the chance to do what they thrive doing.

If you are planning your getaway with your partner, listen with openness and a sense of adventure to what your love sees as an ideal and romantic experience.

Be clear about what you'd like to do too. Now both of you have the opportunity to expand and perhaps be adventurous arranging for activities that you wouldn't necessarily have chosen but are nonetheless willing to try out.

There may also be more overlap in what you both want than you expected.

Believe it or not, this openness and sense of adventure are key ingredients to your getaway being a more passionate experience.

Be true to yourself and what you want, but stay open and you may find a deeper connection with your love.

Let go of expectations and enjoy the moment.

You've made reservations, set up transportation, perhaps you've even packed and are ready to go. Now is definitely the time to let go of your expectations for this getaway and just settle in and enjoy each moment that comes.

Even if Joanie and Paul had planned their rustic mountain cabin trip together and found ways to include a balance of activities they both like to do, the sprained ankle, bug bites and sunburn might still have occurred. Stuff happens.

When you can loosen up about what you planned and allow for the unexpected, you may find that you and your love can still connect and share passion-- even amid the surprises and unpleasantries.

It's all about staying open and keeping your focus on what this trip was all about in the first place: to connect and celebrate the love you two share. Have fun and don't forget to laugh as intimacy between you two grows!

Buy Her a Silk G-string

A gift of lingerie is cliched, right? So twist it. Give it to her when you (seemingly) don't expect sex right then and there. Pass it under the table at a restaurant and ask her to go to the ladies' room and change into it. "It's a little naughty, but she has a chance to play back," says Dr Joy Davidson, a relationship therapist in Seattle, USA. Not recommended for a first date.

Men are microwaves and women are slow cookers

With men, all you have to do is push a few buttons and we're hotter than a habanero. But with women, it's an all-day process. You have to buy the ingredients, mix them together, and then put everything in the pot and let it simmer . . . and simmer . . . and simmer.

That's why we're offering a microwave mentality for the Crock-Pot reality: quick, easy things you can do to make her heating speeds better match yours. Our suggestions take anywhere from a few seconds to a few minutes. The payoff? They'll quickly adjust her thermostat to high heat.